On the Surprises ...:)
I have already gotten surprise #12. This also means that 12 weeks have passed since the start of this year and the start of my weekly surprises.
A few people have asked about whether the surprises are leading up to the big question :) I have no idea. The housing issue is putting us on a lot of strain. We both know as we enter the 7th year, we are both ready to move on to the next phase of our lives. Yet we are in a dilemma of finding a perfect solution which don’t seems to exist.
In the mean time, we know that while finding the solution, we need to handle our relationship with extra care. Because we know, how many people gave up at the final stage, just when you thought the relationship is very stable because of the number of years together? Yet, this is such a crucial stage when you are supposed to move on but you are stuck and the sparks probably decrease, the impatience grew and the ideas run out.
And I know our friend know full well how volatile this period is. Thus, the many surprises and how hard he worked to pay off 2k per month for the study loan. How hard he worked to feed my always growling stomach. It’s insane.
I do wish things were easier, I do wish we could have go as planned, but I thought the very least I could do is to be appreciative of all that I have… :)
On a cheerier note, we will soon be embarking on an exciting phase of ministry. Surely, new challenges will emerge coupled with our own emotions. Yet, deep inside us there’s this little tinkling, little excitement, as the dreams await to be realized … :)
He makes all things beautiful in His Time:)
We are on our way...:)
A few people have asked about whether the surprises are leading up to the big question :) I have no idea. The housing issue is putting us on a lot of strain. We both know as we enter the 7th year, we are both ready to move on to the next phase of our lives. Yet we are in a dilemma of finding a perfect solution which don’t seems to exist.
In the mean time, we know that while finding the solution, we need to handle our relationship with extra care. Because we know, how many people gave up at the final stage, just when you thought the relationship is very stable because of the number of years together? Yet, this is such a crucial stage when you are supposed to move on but you are stuck and the sparks probably decrease, the impatience grew and the ideas run out.
And I know our friend know full well how volatile this period is. Thus, the many surprises and how hard he worked to pay off 2k per month for the study loan. How hard he worked to feed my always growling stomach. It’s insane.
I do wish things were easier, I do wish we could have go as planned, but I thought the very least I could do is to be appreciative of all that I have… :)
On a cheerier note, we will soon be embarking on an exciting phase of ministry. Surely, new challenges will emerge coupled with our own emotions. Yet, deep inside us there’s this little tinkling, little excitement, as the dreams await to be realized … :)
He makes all things beautiful in His Time:)
We are on our way...:)
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